Showing posts with label non-fiction. Show all posts
Showing posts with label non-fiction. Show all posts

Where the dead live by Sam Fern & Rômolo D'Hipólito

Where the dead live by Sam Fern & Rômolo D'Hipólito. 

Templar Books, 2025.

Wander through labyrinths of bone and stone, dive into sunken cemeteries and uncover the sacred sites of long-lost legends. Along the way, join in heartfelt traditions from around the globe that joyfully reunite the living with the lost. From Mexico's vibrant Day of the Dead to the Pirate Cemetery of Saint-Pierre and the shadowy depths of Hades, embark on a thrilling adventure through folklore, mythology and cultural practices that reveal the beauty and mystery of the afterlife. 

Folklore, mythology, and cultural practices around death and the dead – from around the world and through time.


The glow: life, death & the light within by Rebekah Lipp & Craig Phillips

The glow: life, death & the light within by Rebekah Lipp & Craig Phillips. 

Wilding Books, 2026. 

Discover a beautifully illustrated picture book that helps children understand death and dying in a comforting, spiritual way. It uses the metaphor of an inner light a unique "glow" that connects all living things to explain the cycle of life, loss, and lasting love. Perfect for parents, teachers, and caregivers seeking a tender resource for explaining death to kids or supporting children's grief. 

Very spiritual – ie new-age-y.  

Not one I would recommend. 


It's ok that you're not ok

It's ok that you're not ok: meeting grief and loss in a culture that doesn't understand by Megan Devine. Sounds True 2017.  

Personal, no nonsense advice for those grieving and those supporting them.

Platitudes are, at best, useless.

Grief doesn't get better. We live with it, grow around it, carry it differently. But it is there, forever. 

If I could recommend only one book for supporters of those grieving 
 this would be it.

If I could recommend only one book for those grieving 
 this would be it. 

Why do I feel so sad?: a grief book for children by Tracy Lambert, LPC & Elena Napoli.

Why do I feel so sad?: a grief book for children 

by Tracy Lambert, LPC & Elena Napoli. 
 Rockridge Press 2020.

Simple and direct text helps explain grief and the various reasons someone may be grieving. The text does not limit grief to a death, but brings in different situations.

A beginner's guide to the end by BJ Miller, MD and Shoshana Berger.

A beginner's guide to the end: practical advice for living life and facing death by BJ Miller, MD and Shoshana Berger. Quercus 2019. 

Written mainly for those facing the prospect of their own death, much of the content isn’t relevant for others. However, there are a couple of chapters which are particularly relevant to my interest in books supporting children and teens who are grieving:

Chapter 16: How to talk to kids
Chapter 21: Grief.

There were a couple of quotes which resonated with me:

P111 Grief is a shape-shifter and varies in intensity and form as it winds its way through a person. You can feel your insides wresting with the loss, trying to reconcile the truth of what’s gone with what remains.

P343… [T]he pain of loss stems from the power of love. If you didn’t care this would all be easier.


Some of the advice is very UK specific.

All that remains by Sue Black

All that remains: a life in death by Sue Black. Doubleday 2018.

A different aspect to death – one which sparked conversations with my elderly mother.

I read this book, because I’ve heard Professor Dame Sue Black on a podcast – and forensics fascinates me (well, most science does). But I wasn’t expecting to learn so much about body donation for anatomy departments.

You can definitely hear Sue’s voice in the book – and she is entertaining and down-to-earth. I ended up reading bits out to my mother – hence the body donation chat, and subsequent internet research. 

Why do things die? by Katie Daynes, Christine Pym and Suzie Harrison.


Why do things die?
by Katie Daynes, illustrated by Christine Pym, designed by Suzie Harrison. Usborne 2020.

A simple, direct book about death and grief. The flaps add interest, but also depth to the explanations. 

What happens when a loved one dies? by Dr Jillian Roberts & by Cindy Revell.


What happens when a loved one dies?: our first talk about death by Dr Jillian Roberts, illustrated by Cindy Revell. Orca Books Publishers 2016. 

A simple and accessible nonfiction book about death and grief, with many cultures and beliefs mentioned.

Sad! by Moira Butterfield, illustrated by Holly Sterling.

(Everybody feels) Sad! by Moira Butterfield, illustrated by Holly Sterling. QED 2016.  

A simple non-fiction book about feeling sad, and ways to feel better. One of the stories is of a boy whose pet cat has died.

Will my cat eat my eyeballs? by Caitlin Doughty.

Will my cat eat my eyeballs?: big questions from tiny mortals about death by Caitlin Doughty,
illustrated by Dianné Ruz. Weidenfeld & Nicolson 2019.  

Honest and humorous, this is an entertaining look into life after death, including rituals and the decaying process.

Although questions may have come from children, the book itself is not written for them. 

Adult intervention may be required for inquiring young minds.

Where do they go? by Julia Alvarez & illustrated by Sabra Field.

Where do they go? by Julia Alvarez, illustrated by Sabra Field. Seven Stories / Triangle Square Books for Young Readers 2016. 

Musing on what happens after death, using many of the common sayings - In clouds, in your heart, in others.

Death, itself, is not discussed, but this could be a useful conversation starter.

When goodbye is forever by Lois Rock

When goodbye is forever by Lois Rock, illustrated by Sheila Moxley. Lion 2004. 


A religious, God-focussed look at death and grief. If you are not looking for a religious point-of-view, the majority of the book can still be of value, with its honest look at death and grief. It starts by discussing other goodbyes, which will make the topic more understandable for children. 

Life is like the wind by Shona Innes

Life is like the wind by Shona Innes, illustrated by Írisz Agócs. Barron’s 2014. 

A straightforward, yet lyrical, explanation about death, grief, and the afterlife. It covers all religions – including reincarnation and heaven, and non-afterlife – and the feelings of grief, without being explicit or complicated. A good introduction. 

When someone dies by Dawn Hewitt

When someone dies by Dawn Hewitt, illustrated by Ximena Jeria. Franklin Watts 2017. 

Simple, yet factual and to-the-point, with basic information – including what is alive, and what is dead. It leaves space for adults to talk about how they – their family, culture, etc – deal with situations like funerals. 


Where do balloons go by Jamie Lee Curtis

Where do balloons go?: an uplifting mystery by Jamie Lee Curtis, illustrated by Laura Cornell. Joanna Cotler Books 2000. 

A metaphorical exploration about life after death. 


Bug in a vacuum by Mélanie Watt

Bug in a vacuum by Mélanie Watt. Tundra 2015.  

Based on the Kübler-Ross stages of grief, this is the surreal tale of a bug in a vacuum cleaner. The bug does escape and live – which isn’t quite what happens in real life. I’m really undecided about whether this would help children, or not. 

I miss you by Pat Thomas

I miss you: a first look at death by Pat Thomas, illustrated by Lesley Harker. Barron’s 2001. 

Simple text explains what death is, the concept of different beliefs, and the emotions that can come after someone has died. A really good introduction to the subject for younger readers. 

The purple balloon by Chris Raschka

The purple balloon by Chris Raschka. Schwartz & Wade Books 2007.  


Written in conjunction with a children’s hospice organisation, this is a simple and straightforward introduction to coping around death.

The goodbye book by Todd Parr

The goodbye book by Todd Parr. Little, Brown and Company 2015. 

Although not specifically looking at death – this is a wonderful book looking at the feelings around a loss.

Michael Rosen's sad book by Michael Rosen

Michael Rosen's sad book by Michael Rosen, illustrated by Quentin Blake. Walker, 2004. 

Poignant and hard-hitting – and oh, so relatable. Michael Rosen shares his feelings after the sudden death of his son, Eddie. The roller-coaster of emotions is beautiful dealt with – and his coping mechanisms. 
A wonderful book for anyone feeling sad, not just those grieving. Highly recommended.