Auntie's bangles by Dean Atta & Alea Marley

Auntie's bangles by Dean Atta & Alea Marley. 

Orchard Books, 2026.

Beti and his cousin, Rama, used to have sleepovers, play games and dance around. But nothing is fun anymore now that Auntie is gone - everything feels... quiet. Beti remembers how Auntie's bangles used to jingle-jangle as she cooked delicious meals, as she turned the pages in their favourite book and especially as she danced. Slowly, by finding joy in these memories, Beti helps Rama to find light and love in the world even after loss. 

Beti wants to be able to help his cousin, Rama, after the death of her mother – his aunt.

A gentle story, one which acknowledges the loss felt by the extended family.


Single Fin by Aaron Topp

Single Fin by Aaron Topp.  

Random House, 2006. 

Fin lives to party and to surf the next wave but when his best friend and mentor, Mike, dies he is left alone. Fin goes to live with Mike's uncle, a farmer down the coast, and begins to adjust to life on the farm. But when Jack, Mike's younger cousin, is expelled from boarding school things change. Jack comes to live on the farm and he and Fin don't get along. When Jack discovers surfing Fin is pressured into fighting demons he thought he had shut away for good. 

Surfing - and suicide. Yep. Sport as a vehicle. 

 

Dear Vincent by Mandy Hager

Dear Vincent by Mandy Hager.

Random House New Zealand, 2013.
 
Seventeen-year-old Tara McClusky's life is hard. She shares the care of her paralysed father with her domineering, difficult mother, forced to cut down on her hours at school to help support the family with a part-time rest home job. She's very much alone, still grieving the loss of her older sister Van, who died five years before. Her only source of consolation is her obsession with art - and painting in particular. Most especially she is enamoured with Vincent Van Gogh: she has read all his letters and finds many parallels between the tragic story of his life and her own.

A story of grief and redemption.

Invisibly breathing by Eileen Merriman

Invisibly breathing by Eileen Merriman.  

Penguin Books, 2019. 

A moving story about unconventional love, bullying and being true to yourself. 'I wish I wasn't the weirdest sixteen-year-old guy in the universe.' Felix would love to have been a number. Numbers have superpowers and they're safe - any problem they might throw up can be solved. 'If I were a five, I'd be shaped like a pentagon ... there'd be magic in my walls, safety in my angles.' People are so much harder to cope with. At least that's how it seems until Bailey Hunter arrives at school. Bailey has a stutter, but he can make friends and he's good at judo. And Bailey seems to have noticed Felix- 'Felix keeps to himself mostly, but there's something about him that keeps drawing me in.' Both boys find they're living in a world where they can't trust anyone, but might they be able to trust each other, with their secrets, their differences, themselves? 

A story of relationships, bullying, truth, and identity.


Amazona by Canizales.

Amazona by Canizales. 

Translated from Spanish by Sofía Huitrón Martínez.

Andrea, a young Indigenous Colombian woman, has returned to the land she calls home. Only 19 years old, she comes to mourn her lost child, carrying a box in her arms. And she comes with another mission. Andrea has hidden a camera upon herself. If she can capture evidence of the illegal mining that displaced her family, it will mark the first step toward reclaiming their land.

War, grief, protest, Indigenous rights, sexual assault, displacement – so much going on in such a slim volume – but one that packs a bunch.


The goodbye tree by Pip Harry & Christina Booth

The goodbye tree by Pip Harry & Christina Booth. 

Walker Books Australia, 2026.

One summer morning, Nick and his family wake up early, and gather precious things to take with them. Today, they will plant a tree - a tree that will reach towards the sun and bring shade to those who rest beneath it. Together they will sow the seeds of a living memorial to someone who has gone before them, but will never be forgotten. 

A gentle, and quietly moving, story.

The only hint this is set in Australia is the kookaburra in one spread. 

This shows the reality of a colonised land – the majority culture is not Indigenous to the land – or to Country.

Where the dead live by Sam Fern & Rômolo D'Hipólito

Where the dead live by Sam Fern & Rômolo D'Hipólito. 

Templar Books, 2025.

Wander through labyrinths of bone and stone, dive into sunken cemeteries and uncover the sacred sites of long-lost legends. Along the way, join in heartfelt traditions from around the globe that joyfully reunite the living with the lost. From Mexico's vibrant Day of the Dead to the Pirate Cemetery of Saint-Pierre and the shadowy depths of Hades, embark on a thrilling adventure through folklore, mythology and cultural practices that reveal the beauty and mystery of the afterlife. 

Folklore, mythology, and cultural practices around death and the dead – from around the world and through time.


Glitter boy by Ian Eagleton

Glitter boy by Ian Eagleton. 

Scholastic, 2023.

James is fabulous. He dances, he sings, and someday he's going to write a song for Mariah Carey to perform. But right now he has three big problems: 1 His teacher, Mr Hamilton, is getting married, and the school choir is planning a wedding surprise. But James's dad won't let James go! Is it because Mr Hamilton is marrying a man? 2 James's nan has been having worrying falls. If Dad finds out, will he put her in a home? 3 At school, a boy named Paul is bullying James, calling him *that word*. James doesn't even want to dance or sing any more... But an ever bigger problem is one James can't bring himself to face: being honest about himself, to himself. 

Books don't usually come with a whole heap of Mariah Carey love! 

The under-the-radar, low-level bullying of James is something that hits close to home.

Again, those middle years can be complete hell. They were the worst years of my bullying - and by those who were, ostensibly, my friends. 

Through it all, James keeps his glitter on. I quashed mine down. 

Do fish sleep? by Jens Raschke & Jens Rassmus

Do fish sleep? by Jens Raschke & Jens Rassmus. 

Translated from German by Belinda Cooper.

Enchanted Lion, 2019.

Ten-year-old Jette wrestles with the death of her younger brother, Emil, at age six, recalling special times they had together, his long-term illness, and his funeral, as well as her parents' grief. 

*Sigh* another book featuring death and grief.

It is such a universal, that there is no surprise it features in translated works. 

Simple and poignant.


The secrets of Cricket Karlsson written by Kristina Sigunsdotter & Ester Eriksson

The secrets of Cricket Karlsson written by Kristina Sigunsdotter & Ester Eriksson. 

Translated by Julia Marshall.

Gecko Press, 2022. 

A bright, contemporary and fearless novel about an ordinary extraordinary 11-year-old trying to win back her best friend and get her mother to stop sighing. Cricket Karlsson is going to become an artist just like her aunt, who loves cheese and art and always speaks her mind. Not like Cricket's mother, who is dieting and sighs at everything. But now Aunt Frannie has lost her joy and Cricket's best friend has dumped her for the horse girls. Eleven-year-old Cricket Karlsson is a warm and complex character with an artistic soul. Written as a diary, tween readers will fall in love with Cricket's tough yet charming voice as she shares her secret thoughts about her best friend break-up, her Aunt's breakdown and experimental chewing gum sculptures. Punkish and surprising comic-style illustrations perfectly compliment this coming of age story. This is a liberating and unexpected story about growing up, fitting in, and sorting out the adults in our lives that will reach the hearts of young readers (and older ones).

This age is such a tough one to write about - and to live through.

That balance between being a child, but sometimes stepping into adult waters.

There's friendship issues.

The impact of adult mental health issues on those around them.

There's growing up. And growing away. And growing closer.


All from a walnut by Ammi-Joan Paquette & Felicita Sala

All from a walnut by Ammi-Joan Paquette & Felicita Sala. 

Abrams Books for Young Readers, 2022.

Following a family tradition, Grandpa gives Emilia a walnut and together they plant and care for it, but as her little nut grows into a tree, Grandpa begins to slow down until one sad day Emilia has to say goodbye.

A poignant story of tradition, generational knowledge, immigration, love, and grief. Life cycles, life lessons, and death. 

Bridge to Anywhere by Sarah Milne & Laura Bee


Bridge to Anywhere
by Sarah Milne & Laura Bee.  

Beatnik Publishing, 2024.  

Aotearoa. 

With her cousins visiting from overseas, Lily shares her magical bridge … and this time they venture further than Australia. Where do you think they will visit and what do you think they will see? Following the success of Kiwis and Koalas, Bridge to Anywhere is the much anticipated sequel - another charming and whimsical tale of love, loss and bridging the distance between the people and places we miss.

Family connections. A bit of fantasy. Mention of death and loss. 

It's ok. Nothing great. Heading towards twee.  

Arno and his horse by Jane Godwin and Felicita Sala.

Arno and his horse by Jane Godwin and Felicita Sala. 

Scribble, 2020.

Arno had a horse, it was brown and it was black. He took it with him everywhere, but did he bring it back? When Arno loses his precious toy horse, all the kids in town help him to look for it. They look everywhere, but will Arno ever see his horse again? A touching story about memory, dreams, and the mysterious ways we feel connected to those we love.

A bit confusing, with disconnects between text and illustrations – but not in a good way.

It’s also a story about death and grief, but that seems almost an afterthought. Rhyming text.


The invisible parade by Leigh Bardugo & John Picacio

The invisible parade by Leigh Bardugo & John Picacio. 

Orion Children's Books, 2025. 

Everyone in the neighborhood was getting ready for the party. Everyone knew somebody on the guest list. . . This was the day the dead returned. There's a party tonight, but Cala doesn't want to go. While her family prepares for the celebration, Cala grieves her grandfather and tries to pretend she's not afraid. But when she is separated from her family at the cemetery, Cala encounters four mysterious riders who will show her she is actually quite brave after all. Set on the night of Día de Muertos, Cala's story is one of love, loss, and the courage that can be found in unexpected places. 

The horseman from the night of Día de Muertos, and a story of grief, combine in a stunning sophisticated picture book.  


Freya and the snake by Fredrik Sonck & Jenny Lucander

Freya and the snake by Fredrik Sonck & Jenny Lucander. 

Originally published in Swedish as Freja och huggormen. Translated by B.J. Woodstein.

Kids Can Press, 2025. 

At their summer cottage, Freya's little brother, Hugo, spots a snake in the cairn. "Its name is Ormis," Freya proclaims. Worried for Hugo's safety, Freya's parents decide they don't want Ormis around -- they must catch the snake and take it away from their home. They assure Freya that the snake won't be harmed. Wearing rain boots and thick gloves, Freya's dad tries to capture Ormis all day. But Ormis is too quick, hissing and slithering in and out of rocky crevices, hiding from view. By the end of the day, Freya's dad is frustrated, his patience thin. So, when he spots Ormis again at last, he sneaks up slowly... and kills him with an oar. Freya sees the whole thing. "Murder!" Freya yells at her dad. Disheartened by her dad's actions, Freya shuns him. She knows that Ormis could have hurt Hugo, but does that mean the snake deserved to die? Surely not. But even if her dad did a bad thing, can Freya really stay mad at him forever? This unflinching picture book explores death, the relationship between humans and nature, and what happens when a child sees their parent do something they think is wrong -- and what it takes to find forgiveness. 

A very different approach to dealing with death. 

Freya’s father kills a snake, which could have bitten one of the family. Freya cannot forgive the snake murder, even after his reasons are explained. Freya has to deal with her anger at her father, but also her love of him.

Is it asleep by Olivier Tallec

Is it asleep? by Olivier Tallec. 

Originally published in French as Est-ce qu'il dort? Translated by Anthony Shugaar. 

Gecko Press, 2025. 

Squirrel and his best friend, Pock the mushroom, sit on the old stump, watching birds fly by. When they're tired of this, they take the path to the yellow meadow to listen to the blackbird sing. But today, the bird's not there. The friends look everywhere. Finally they find it on the path, all stretched out and quite still. It must be sleeping. They sit down quietly and wait for the bird to wake. This true-to-child story of a natural encounter with an animal that has died is both dryly humorous and a profound example of how to manage the comings and goings of life. 

A quirky introduction to death, which does look at what it means – physically – to be dead. And, a bit at life cycles.  

The glow: life, death & the light within by Rebekah Lipp & Craig Phillips

The glow: life, death & the light within by Rebekah Lipp & Craig Phillips. 

Wilding Books, 2026. 

Discover a beautifully illustrated picture book that helps children understand death and dying in a comforting, spiritual way. It uses the metaphor of an inner light a unique "glow" that connects all living things to explain the cycle of life, loss, and lasting love. Perfect for parents, teachers, and caregivers seeking a tender resource for explaining death to kids or supporting children's grief. 

Very spiritual – ie new-age-y.  

Not one I would recommend. 


Riwia and the Stargazer by Linda Tuhiwai Smith & Isobel Joy Te Aho-White.

Riwia and the Stargazer by Linda Tuhiwai Smith & Isobel Joy Te Aho-White. 

Huia Publishers, 2023. 

Since he was born, Riwia's baby brother, Tawa, has been in Auckland Hospital, and his family has come to stay in Auckland. While Riwia goes to school and Dad works as a cook, Mum stays with Tawa. Their Aunty Sue's house is full, and renting is expensive, so Riwia and her parents live in a van, the Stargazer. But Tawa is getting sicker, and he dies. The family travels back to Te Teko, taking Tawa to the marae for his tangi and burial. Riwia learns about the journey Tawa's spirit will make, and at Matariki, the family gathers and remembers Tawa. 

This book deals with so much more than death, including homelessness. However, this book deals with death, lifetime illness, preparatory grief, and tangihana. 

Millie's big decision by Ian Eagleton & Max Rambaldi

Millie's big decision by Ian Eagleton & Max Rambaldi.

Tate Publishing, 2023. 

Millie has always wanted a dog, but when her grandmother passes away, she finds herself scared of letting anyone (or any dog) in. Can her dads help her find the perfect pup to teach her to love again? 

The death of Millie's beloved grandmother helps give this story impetus. How can Millie adopt and love a new dog, when they could die, and she would grieve. The inclusion of two dads is incidental to the story, but is a lovely bonus. 

The more you give by Marcy Campbell and Francesca Sanna.

The more you give by Marcy Campbell and Francesca Sanna.

A beautiful story of continuity and love, with lessons passed down through the generations. 

The grandmother's death is not explained, but quietly incorporated into the story. I appreciate how the grandson knows to reach for help in his sorrow. 

The story moves on, with more generations.